Tuesday, January 27, 2015

January 15 New Year -- New Happenings

With the new year lots of new things are happening!

1. We finally figured out a way for AJ to remove the pillows during the night from under his sides (this helps reduce his risk for developing bed sores)! This means Becca doesn't need to get up at night to help and AJ can be more independent.

2. Becca went home for a few days while AJ stayed with family and CNAs to help with his needs. It was the first time AJ has been without one of his parents since the accident!  It was a great way to test the system and identify areas that need improvement. One main difficulty is that AJ needs someone to be available all times.  AJ doesn't need help all the time, but the need can arise at any time. Independence is slow coming, but with AJ's determination, we can't imagine it's too far off!

3. AJ has started physical therapy at a place called Neuroworx (www.neuroworx.org).  It is a physical therapy place that focuses solely on Spinal Cord Injuries. With AJ they are doing a lot of large motor skill work with the idea that it will encourage future movement as his nervous system retrains itself and adapts to the injury. They don't like the idea of waiting for movement to "come back" on its own. Instead they try to influence how the nervous system reroutes itself. When AJ is done with PT he is exhausted!  Here are some videos of AJ working out at Neuroworx:


As you can see, AJ works like a beast! Watching him can be heartbreaking because he has lost so much since the accident; yet it is also remarkable and inspiring to watch because AJ is willing to push on with faith and courage; always believing there is something more for him! So, after the first week at Neuroworx he is feeling really good about the change.  The therapists and staff are positive and encouraging and most of them have personal connections to someone with a spinal cord injury or they have recovered from a SCI themselves. It's been a comfort to meet others that have walked this path and made happy, productive lives for themselves. There successes encourage us!

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

December 16 - Small Movements

Some small movements in one foot and one hand have started to appear; all on AJ's left side.  One night while getting to bed, AJ tried to move his toes. Amazingly, his 2nd and 3rd toes responded. It's a very small movement, but it's definitely controlled by AJ's brain.  His thumb started moving on its own (while he was on a date :)) and his middle finger started to have control after his OT used a hand held electric stimulation machine on his fingers.  After the session he was able to have some movement in his middle finger.  Here are videos of his movements:


When these things happen we feel a burst of excitement! Just knowing that AJ's brain is able to get some messages through his damaged spinal cord area gives us so much hope.

AJ has also started transferring to the back seat in the van (at times with assistance) instead of riding in his locked down wheelchair. Not only is this more comfortable for him but we believe it's much more safe.  It's a challenge for him every time we get in and out of the car, but it's worth it.

December 8 - In Home Help

This week we called an in-home nursing agency to hire Certified Nursing Assistants (CNAs) to help with AJ's morning and night routines. We hope this will serve 2 purposes:
   1. Set AJ up to have the help he needs in order to be more independent and
   2. Help Becca get more rest and reduce the physical demands on her.

Every aid that has come in has expressed their surprise and respect for the determination AJ has to do as much as possible for himself. They have seen other quadriplegics give up as they face this difficult journey. While the CNAs work with AJ, some of their time is spent watching him do things like brushing his teeth or washing his face on his own instead of them doing it for him.

We would love to see changes and improvements everyday, but this healing and recovery takes time. Sometimes when I get feeling desperate for the relief and healing we want, I think of the saying, "Sometimes God calms the storm; sometimes He calms the sailor."  AJ won't give up and neither will we.  We are learning a deeper patience, a greater gratitude and a firmer trust in the Lord as we watch the subtle miracles slowly happen.